Clothing Gap

In keeping with my previous post, this seems particularly fair. Right?

Ministry Moment?

I know some people who might think this was a "ministry moment." How about you?

Dufus

After navigating the traffic torrent at my daughters’ school this morning, I wonder why an automaker has yet to name a car "Dufus." Think how many would be purchased and given as gifts. I think the GPS voice should come with an aristocratic English accent. Direction and scorn sounds so much better coming from the stuffy and well educated. "Why did you fail to turn left, you ignorant Dufus? Now I must recalculate the proper route. Paying perfect attention henceforth would be a capital idea."

Love Works

Does it seem to you that the primary motivators in life today are fear, guilt and anger? I think that motivational trinity has crowded out what God intended—the motivation of love.

It’s happened to the church, too.

We seem ever to want to be motivated by crisis, by calamity, by a good cause and a good appeal, by a big need, or by a needed kick to our backside. I know the church doesn’t really want that, but it seems like it does. And I sure don’t like it. It’s not that we shouldn’t be motivated by a sudden event, it’s just that we can become addicted to the energy and appeal of the moment. And there is something much better, something more true and constant, something given by God Himself. The church was made for it. You were too.

God’s love produces confidence and daring and assurance and peace and rest and hope and, well, everything we need. God’s very being is love, so if we, His sons and daughters, attempt to do much of anything apart from love, we fumble and act unnatural. We feel it, too. Like something’s seriously out of whack in us. And it is. When the behavior of the Corinthian Christians went seriously crazy, the apostle Paul pointed them back to the love of God because it is the prime motivator—it rescues and refreshes and compels the people of God (2 Cor 5:14).

God’s love works.

I’m reminded of what love did to the Macedonians. God gave an amazing grace to these people who lived in “extreme poverty” such that in their joy they gave what little they had so others could hear the gospel. The Macedonians were in love with God, having been won-over by His love for them. And that love “welled up in rich generosity” (2 Cor 8:2).

Paul then wrote to the Corinthians that they, too, should “excel in this grace of giving. I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others” (2 Cor 8:8, italics mine).

That’s why the Macedonians gave – they were in love! They didn’t give motivated by an appeal to sacrifice, they didn’t give to make sure their tithe was on time, they didn’t give because others were in need, and they didn’t give because it was the right thing to do. They gave because they were in love, and that made their giving “acceptable” (2 Cor 8:12). Their gift wasn’t acceptable for any other reason but love.

And that’s what drives me bonkers for the church. I want believers to know and be motivated out of a burgeoning love affair with God. I don't mean we should never give unless we're right then invigorated by love, but I fear we've gotten used to giving without it. We've learned to motivate and to be motivated by something else. That's what makes pushy pastors and manipulative motivators out of our leadership. And I don’t think they like it any more than we do.

If we're not behaving well and doing good, it's because we're missing love.

If your motivation is low right now, go get some love—you need it and can’t live without it. If your giving lacks, if your service is stunted or reluctant, if there is gossip in the church and “sin in the camp,” go get some love—you cannot live without it.

“How can I get some of His love?” you ask. You might read Ephesians 1, or think about the gospel, which says you have been given everything for nothing, or ask Jesus what He thinks of you right now (you know it will be good!), or take a walk and start thanking God for what He has done for you in Christ, or pick up a favorite book and turn to that great passage about God’s love for you, or email or call someone and ask them to remind you who God has made you to be and what His thoughts are toward you. Or message me or email me – I’ll help you. It’s an assist and pleasure for me to think on and talk about God’s grace and love.

Because for me, too, love works.

Heaping Platefuls

With millennia of proof that man cannot regulate himself, still life by rule-keeping and willpower holds out vain hope of life without Life. And that's the biggest cheat. We don't get to know or enjoy God when we bite on the willpower lure. I know that lure well and I'm still growing in faith that the lure is tin and deadly. I am deeply thankful for those who serve heaping platefuls of the truth of God’s love and grace to me/us.

More, please.

Valentines Galore

I've got some history with love. How about you?

Sometime back in the murky years of elementary school, there crept a dawning realization that I liked it when girls liked me. It felt good, so I took note of what girls liked. When I was funny, they liked it. When I was caring, they liked it. When I threw a touchdown pass, they liked it. When I looked good, they liked it. It wasn't long before I had a storehouse of knowledge concerning what girls liked. Pretty useful, I thought.

Through the ensuing years of wanting to be liked, I brought out of my storehouse whatever I thought was best for the situation. I wanted this girl or that girl to see me at my best, so I offered a bit of caring here, some physical prowess there, and perhaps a witty phrase or two to seal the deal. I discovered an important equation: She sees me + she likes me = Valentines galore.

Happiness.

What did I do when I wanted God's love? Pretty much the same thing. I wanted Him to see me doing the things He liked—reading the Bible, witnessing, tithing, caring, not sinning, etc.—so He would like me. I worked my equation: God sees me + God likes me = Valentines galore. It works with women and love, so it must work with God. It's the way of love.

Or so I thought.

But before I could trot out one dazzling speck of Valentine worthiness from my storehouse, God, who sees me at every moment, loved me for no reason I could see. Ever since we first got together when I was twenty-four, He has been dazzling me. Really, it's the most valuable part of my life—God's love for me. And I have never been able to motivate Him to love me. He has never once conveyed to me that He loves me now more than He once did. Not one time has He ever told me that His love for me is deeper, better, seasoned, more fun, more reliable, or more secure. I haven't done a thing to bring about anything any better. Maybe that will be my claim to fame. "Without doing anything to deserve it, Ralph knew that God loved him like crazy."

If you asked my wife, Sarah, why she loves me, she would give you reasons—some good ones. She would say, "I love Ralph because. . ." If you asked God why He loved me, His response wouldn’t be like Sarah's. While there are things He likes about me, He loves me without a because. I have done nothing to earn God’s love and there will never come a day when I will have to finally get myself together and earn His love. That's something that has fascinated and drawn me to Him ever since He first wooed me to Himself.

God is love! (1 John 4:8) God's love doesn't ebb and flow, rise and fall, motivated by the subject or the moment—God is love. And have you noticed? He's wild and reckless with it! When you consider who He loves, don't you come to the same conclusion? He doesn't keep His love only for the loveable—not for a moment. He lavishes His deep and lasting affection upon the best and worst of us without regard. And, try as we might, nothing can ever separate us from His love. Say it with me—nothing. God shot my equation all to hell. Really. He did it for love.

And now? I’ve got a new equation: God's love + God's grace = Valentines galore!

"But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast." (Ephesians 2:4-9)

Valentine's Help

‎(For those of us who might need some time-tested help with the ladies on Valentine's Day.)

TOP TEN PICKUP LINES USED BY ADAM

10. "You know you're the only one for me!"
9. "Do you come here often?"
8. "Trust me, this was meant to be!"
7. "Look around, baby. All the other guys around here are animals!"
6. "I already feel like you're a part of me!"
5. "Honey, you were made for me!"
4. "Why don't you come over to my place and we can name some animals?"
3. "You're the girl of my dreams!" (Gen. 2:21)
2. "I like a girl who doesn't mind being ribbed!"

And the #1 pickup line from Adam is:
"You're the apple of my eye!"

Delight Yourself

“Delight yourself in the Lord” (Psalm 37:4) is not a command to dance about and make merry as though the appearance of delight fulfills the command. It’s a directive for our own enjoyment. When we find God to be our greatest joy and pleasure, the presumed pleasures of drink and sex and ambition and covetousness are exposed as the comparatively empty pretenders they are, and their grip upon us is loosened.

Radio Oops!

I was supposed to be on the radio (AM 910) with Roy Hanschke this Monday morning, from 7:00 – 8:30am, but he got quite sick and couldn't make it.

We will reschedule, and, in a week or so, he will interview me about my book, “God’s Astounding Opinion of You.” For more information and to stream the show live, go to http://www.kpof.org/.

I know which person represents me in this cartoon. How about you?

The Way of Freedom

Freedom from captivity to the people and things of this world is found not in shunning them but in discovering God as captivatingly treasurable—He makes satisfying us the way of freedom. What fun it is to help each other find God as the treasure He is. Is there a higher calling?

On The Radio

I will be on the radio (AM 910) with Roy Hanschke this Monday morning, from 7:00 – 8:30am. He will be interviewing me about my book, “God’s Astounding Opinion of You.” For more information and to stream the show live, go to http://www.kpof.org/.

On My Way

I'm pretty dazzled by the community God is gathering and building at Saline, Michigan. I believe that you have an idea of the magnitude of what you're receiving from Him. It is sacred and it is beautiful. So why don't you all simply move to Colorado? Wouldn't that be better? Wouldn't that complete the whole thing? (I am secretly building a commune of my favorite people. Don't tell anyone.) I'm on my way home to my girls--all three. Hooray!

Treasure Treasured

What if our life’s best work is to treasure our Treasure? And what if that explains most all of what goes wrong with us who aren’t finding Jesus as greatest treasure?

Have you noticed what happens to you when you find (again) Jesus as treasurable? Do you then have to force yourself to have a good attitude? To be compassionate? To obey God? To love others? No. Hmm. I wonder if there’s a lifestyle there. . .Treasure treasured produces. (Matthew 13:44; John 6:28-29)

Wonder!

It’s not so much about trusting God with my life given to Him, it’s about trusting God with His life given to me. After all, Jesus didn’t receive my life when I gave it to Him, I received His. Kindly and graciously, He crucified my former life and gave me another—His. I’m learning to trust Him in me.

What a wonder that is.